It takes a while, for a man to accept that he has lied to you and to admit it. The only way, is easing it out of him, and telling him you need to know the truth or the relationship may not last. Also, if you are certain, try telling him you will leave him unless he admits it. But if all else fails, and you are still certain, look for body language. Sit in front of your partner, and simply ask him the question. Eg, "Are you lieing to me?" or, "Have you cheated on me?" out right. If he does fidgety movements, even like a hand movement or a shaking leg it is 99.9 % chance he is lieing. As well as that, there are also unstoppable small body movements, like a pupil contracting or the eye twitching. Good luck ! If you think he is lying to you about lying, then how will you know when he is telling the truth about telling the truth?
Watch. Listen for discrepancies. Pay attention to his behavior and note any changes. Ask questions, but be subtle. Make sure this is NOT insecurity on your part . Think carefully before confronting him , if the time comes when you feel you must. If he's lying, in time he will slip up.
If you are confronting your boyfriend in person, look at his body language, stare right into his eyes and see if he looks back. If he is lying he won't look at you, he might stutter, he might also move his hand, adjust his posture and move his leg so it makes him for comfortable.
If it is over the phone, listen to the tone of his voice, does it sound like he is nervous, tense? If so suspect that maybe something is going on.
And most importantly, stick to your gut, if you have "that feeling" of self doubt and you feel that distance between your man, then go with your gut and end it before it gets worse. Its better for you in the long run.
You can't! He has to come to terms with himself and admits that he lies in the first place and then he needs to get help. He's either a Class A jerk that has no remorse or considers others feelings, or he lies because he has no self esteem and he dramatizes and lies to look important to his peers. Wishing won't make him quit lying. You are going to have to take a risk and tell him flat out you are not putting up with his lying and if he doesn't start straightening up and fly right you are out that door! Mean it! Good luck Marcy
I think that really depends on what he is lying about, directly and in person is usually the best option.
If you know him well, you can usually tell the signs.
If you ever find out a foolproof method, then patent it and make millions selling it.
He might have to act diffrent and nervous and well you know he has to change a little.
it gets obvious but its nothing to get worried about he is just trying to impress you
hope i helped lots of love ponymadgirl007
I talk to him with asking an explanation why he did this.
I installed to his phone one of paid programs from mireview.com. Now I always know when he is lying to me.
Threaten him with anything that you have against him. Sit down and have a talk with him he will tell the truth if he's the right guy, if you know he's lying leave him
It sounds as though he is upset with the games you are playing. If you like him just tell him or let him be.
You should tell your friend how you feel and that unless she tells them you wont be her friend anymore.
You know if u cant have a bf, be your own bf, like me if you cant have one get one and dnt tell anyone or dnt tell ta ppl u dnt wanna tell easy as tat
well i think you should tell your bf's bf that you cant keep sneaking around with him and you should tell your bf if the problem doesnt subcide.
Check for body language signals that he is lying
tell him no and then explain that its nothing against him you just already have a bf
I had a girlfriend just like that years ago...if you can't trust someone to be honest, the relationship will never work. Answer Someone that lies about little things will most likely lie about big things as well. Get out of that relationship or you may be up for alot of hurt.
Oh wow... lose the "friend". and the boyfriend if he said yes.... ouch :0
tell him to go to the doctor and tell him whats going on and then ask for a taco(:
if she has herpes on her face.
no