How can you pop your own cherry?

Answer 1

Commonly referred to as Deflowering. Deflowering must be done within the bounds of marriage. If however you do so outside of marriage then the way is still the same. If it is being done for that sake of having sex then you will go at it like a bull in a China shop and the young lady will hate you for your over eagerness.

There will be some pain which she will have to go through as the thin membrane is penetrated. It will be up to you to prepare her for this first experience by you setting the mood for the experience you both will go through. Kissing and gently fondling her breasts and body along with sweet whisperings. She will let you know when she is ready.

Gently thrust your member into her until you feel it against the membrane. If she cries out then stop until she is ready again. The penetration does not take a forceful thrust, but you will know when you have broken through, her cry of pain will be one indication.

At this stage you still have to be gentle, in fact it is a good idea to let here make any movements. Some girls may like to lower themselves upon their partner, that way they take control of the situation. At this deflowering continue with all the gentleness she deserves. Let her dictate when the session is to end.

Hope this has been of help?

Answer 2

You have sex with them, or just penetrate the area.

: That is a crude and slang way of refering to a males defloration of a female. Defloration is a euphemism that refers to a male having sexual intercourse with a female, wherein it is the first time for the female.

Put another way, when a female has sexual intercourse for the first time, she is said to have "lost her virginity", and the male who was interacting with her is regarded as the one who "took" it.

Given that a virginal female may have an intact hymen, the first act of sexual intercourse can break the hymen, resulting in some bleeding. The color of blood, and the breaking of the hymen, are where some get the phrase "popping her cherry".

It is regarded as a crude expression, mainly because it demeans what should be an event of some importance and meaning.

Answer 3

use your finger, something small, thin but hard, locate THE AREA and apply pressure DIRECTLY on it.

Answer 4

I would hope he noticed. If not, maybe something subtle, like an ecard.