How can you tell if your partner is using you for your money?

If your partner: ---never seems to pay for outings, or rarely offers to pay or go dutch ---borrows money that is never repayed or never on time. Ask for financial help at the end of the month, when rent or other bills are due. ---tries to persuade you to open a joint bank account, or wants their name on your credit cards ---wants to move into a residence you live in, especially early on in the relationship ---has problems with finances, does not keep a budget and buys extravagances they can't afford ---has a history of not staying in one job for very long ---is delinquent in paying child support to another person