How do you forgive your boyfriend for cheating?

Answer 1

You'll have to take his word for it when you feel you don't want to, and forgive him though that doesn't mean forget what he's done. You can't let what he's done dictate your whole relationship if you're truly serious about learning to trust him again.

Unless he's repeating behavior he did when he cheated on you, you can't have suspicious thoughts about him just because you want to.

However, piecing together broken trust is sometimes the hardest thing to do for a person, and at other times, near impossible. If you feel you can't do it, and you've told him you would, it may be best to let him and the relationship go.
Okay well first of all, if he never wants to spend time with you anymore then you know he is up to something. Usually when a guy hides his phone from you all the time then you know he's texting other girls. For the first couple months, everything seems so perfect until it hits to almost a year & everything goes downhill. Truthfully when he starts acting different or odd towards you then you know he wants to move on with his life.

Answer 2

It depends on tour capacity to forgive him.

Some men will never change (he who has cheated will cheat again), and some realised it was a mistake.

The answer is in yourself.

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It will be hard I know, because I was in your place for a while. But before he had the affair the second time he had done it the very first year of our marriage. I had forgiven him then because it was "a working girl" in a nite club, but this time I can't and didn't.

I have done everything in my power to be a good wife to him in bed and out and he betrayed me and my children. It wasn't hard to let him go, because he finally showed me his real color as a christian man, husband, and a father.

But maybe yours is different than mine but be aware and be very carefull, no one deserve this kind of pain. And let time heal your pain and one day it will be gone.

Answer 3

Well you will probably find it hard to trust him again at first you will have to build up your relationship over time. My boyfriend cheated on me and i stupidly let him go but i couldn't think of anything else that i could have done it was too much=( GoodLuck;)x

Answer 4

Yes, a Wife can only trust her husband if he is sincere to her and promise to not to repeat such mistake in future., otherwise NO.

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This will depend on what the two of you agreed on after his affair is been discovered. If you still love him and he still love you this will be the first step for the two of you. But trusting will be hard for you because he broke the bond that the two of you said to one another. Think this through and then ask your heart how you feel. Our heart will never lie to us.

We all have different problems but the same out come, husband having an affair and most of their excuse will be "wife do not meet their needs." Pity but that's what they always use. It happened to me, even though I never did wrong. He was my world, my priority but not enough, so now even though I wasted many years with him, I can finally say that I am better off without him in my life. Good luck to you and I do hope that you will be smart making decision about your life....

Answer 5

The only way you can fully trust a boyfriend after he has cheated is if he has admitted cheating and is remorseful. You can tell if he's truly remorseful by what he does after admitting to cheating. If he now tells you about his whereabouts and isn't acting suspicious he's getting there. No matter what he does though, he has broken the trust that you gave him initially and once that is broken, it doesn't really come back. You just have to give this guy a different place in your heart. And you sure as heck wont be in this relationship without taking cautious steps to avoid suffering the same pain again. You've got to be willing to deal with knowing this happened and trying to move past it without bringin it up. The only person that will be hurting is you.

Answer 6

If he truly is repentant of this past event, and you can forgive him, then the trust should be restored as it was before he had the affair. Once you stop trusting each other ... and I mean trusting 100% without any shadow of any doubts ... the relationship is doomed. Trust and Communication are two key ingredients to any successful relationship.

if you love the person enough then just put the past behind and learn to forgive.

Answer 7

All you have to do is follow your heart. If this is the first time your boyfriend cheat on you, look back to what the two of you had together. We are all human, in reality men are weaker one, even they think its us women. I do hate cheating especially when someone gets hurt but if your story is different from others, give him another chance. But you need to tell him if he do it again, he will loose a lot and you will not put up with his betrayal. You tell him the pain that he gave you. You don't deserve this, none of us do but it always happen. Good luck.

Answer 8

It seems unlikely that you will ever be able to trust him.