How can you win your boyfriend back?
There are many possible ways to try and make someone come
back to you. At the end of it all - it comes down to how much you
want to possibly make a fool of yourself, and if the man doesn't
want to - then he wont.
Make him jealous.... Act like you want nothing to do with
him and be nice to him like it does not bother you and he may come
running! Although this is a good one - the last thing that most
people feel like doing is going out and getting somebody else. This
only works if he really wants to get back with you - as in the
split is only temporary. Acting like nothing bothers you is good
because you will start to feel like nothing bothers you - the
chicken and the egg syndrome.
Dress yourself up - new clothes and makeup baby! Putting
on some makeup, and dressing up in clothes that are sexy and
alluring will catch his eye. This does mean finding out where they
are going to be and being there. You could seem like a stalker, and
reaffirm to him why he left you in the first place! Remember that
men work on the visual part of their brains for attraction. If you
can turn heads by revealing your best feature then show it off!
Find someone else... Probably the best thing to do for
putting off the pain. If you win him back then fansastic - and if
you lose him then you still have your other someone. Beware though
because this is the so-called rebound relationship. People
get with partners thinking they like each other - but then find out
that one person is really just doing it to show an ex that they can
meet other people. You are better to ask a friend to come out with
you. It is better if this person knows the situation so they aren't
hurt. It's hard to spare others the pain of losing someone when
we've lost someone and are hurting - but be decent. People will
learn that you are a nice person - and the next person may come
along and you'll be way more happy!
Just remember - there is no point in pineing for someone who is
never going to come back. Respect yourself - get a social calendar
that allows you to meet people. It can often feel like they are
your only option in life. After all - you are not just saying
goodbye to them but also to your hopes and dreams for the future.
It's natural to hurt - but you will feel a lot better about
yourself if you move on. You will be stronger and wiser, but don't
be more bitterer. This only harms you in the long run as people
won't ever want to know you, and your ex will only realise another
reason why he left you!
Remember - there is not just one Mr Right in the world. There
are tens of thousands. You've just got to meet them. And God knows
- the world can seem like a place that only couples live in when we
first split up. Take care and remember - you are better than they
are - so it's their loss! x