I have been in the exact same situation (still am in that situation, actually) but I think I have the answer: step back, let her like the person she likes, and let her date him. But you play an important role in this because you're the person she's done this with before; she's been out with you, and it's not like she's forgotten about that (you're not stuck in the Friend Zone because you used to be in the Boyfriend Zone; you left the Friend Zone forever, but there's always a chance that you'll get back in the Boyfriend Zone because she liked you enough to make you her boyfriend in the first place). At the moment, you're not the boyfriend but you're the friend. If the boy she likes becomes the boyfriend, she'll have her friend to turn to (you) if she needs any advice or comfort if she goes through a rough patch with the boyfriend. If the boy she likes doesn't like her back, you're there as her friend. You've stepped back by not letting your feelings for this girl show, but you're there for her. That's the one thing this girl needs to know, even if she doesn't yet know that you want to be more than her friend. In time, this girl will realise that she's always got her friend (you) to count on. The key word here is "time" - give her as long as you can to realise what she's missing when she's not with you, but of course still be there for her as a friend. Anything is possible. I wish you the best of luck.
Guys are jerks. My advice- dont fall for their crap/
you gotta sleep with them first lol jk
you can't make someone fall for someone else..
yes most defontaly!
they probably think the other person "looks alot better" then the person there with
She wants to keep you on the back burner in case she can't be with the other guy, in other words your now a fall back guy
by someone else answering
Fall in love with someone else
Do something sweet to show you still have feelings for her - this does not need to be a present/card/flowers, but if you can recall what she said she liked/disliked on your date, try to engage her interest in this (and you) again by showing that you remember that date/her fondly.
You can't make someone love you. If he's with another girl then leave well enough alone and move on with your life. If you're meant to be together you will be sooner or later.
Answer If you love someone who is already engaged then be a man or woman and move on in your life. Would you like it if someone came along and ruined your relationship, I bet not so why do it to someone else. Surely there is someone else you can fall in love with and not destroy a good relationship because you want your own way.