How to tell my boyfriend i don't want a baby?

Answer 1

If the subject of children hasn't come up before this needs to be handled delicately. First of all "YOU" must consider all the following. Are you financially ready, do you feel the two of you are mature enough to have a child together, what are you going to do if, heaven forbid, the child has a serious medical issue, even if the two of you are as healthy as horses, this is nature and everyone has a 50/50 chance of having a child with medical issues, where are you going to live, how will you provide for the baby afterward for clothing, shelter, food. Do you currently have at least 1$10,000.00 for the birth of the baby, its not free you know. All of these questions must be answered before hand, if you are going to have a happy healthy pregnancy, don't forget about your medical care while pregnant, you don't want to go to the health department like a pauper, do you and a happy baby, think it over. All the cute cuddling you see on tv is not the reality of bringing a child into the world. Now when you do consider all the above and think its something you two can handle, you come out and be honest with him and let him know that you feel you want a child. Dont be surprised if he doesnt feel the same and don't let it ruin your relationship.

Answer 2

You can say, "I know you said you didn't want to have kids, but maybe deep down you do because you had unprotected sex with me and that can cause pregnancy. And, by the way, it did. I'm pregnant."

Answer 3

Punch a child in the face, and steal his socks... if that doesn't get the message across, I think you should just sit him down, and tell him how you feel and why... He will understand, and if not, maybe you need to rethink your relationship.

Good luck :)