Although it may not seem fair that your ex boyfriend slept with your girlfriend, it's you that is wrong. Once you break up with you mate then they owe nothing to you so they can see and date whomever they want. However, I wouldn't be so mad at him as I would be at your friend. I have never dated one of my girlfriend's ex boyfriends because I thought it was rude and crude and I would never want to take the chance of hurting my girlfriend. If she had no problem, then it may be different.
There is no trust issue here. You and your ex were no longer going together so he can sleep with whom he wants. I will make a bet it was you that broke the relationship off and you are angry that he so quickly slept with someone else and it was like salt being poured into an open wound when he slept with your girlfriend. I think he was angry at you and wanted to get back at you.
I think it's time to sit and talk with your boyfriend and you take part of the blame as well. As you well know young men are at the height of their sexual prowess and some men will sleep with the "devil in a blue dress" if it meant satisfying themselves. If you love him, he loves you, then be mature and work it out! Be sure you let him know that cheating isn't an option if you decide to go together again.
Good luck Marcy
well that's a tuff one well it will be hard to gain he trust back because in the back of your mind you maybe think well should i trust him again? What if he does it again right well i know everyone thinks that at one point talk to him about it and talk to your best friend it will take some time to heal and to start trusting him again but talk to them
it may mean she likes him but my friend asks me, and she has a boyfriend (but then again, she used to like him...)
your a bad friend and never talk to her boyfriend again
first, you should tell her that your not, and if she doesnt believe you, then you should wait, or get proof that you haven`t. if that doesnt work, then wait some time and try again. but dont wait too long.
you should give it a chance...if he comes onto you end it!
tell him she was a friend or a cousin and ask him to go out with you again .
because ha want's to be your boyfriend or he just want's to know
Try and get him help, and if he doesnt take it... walk away
If you really are a friend, you don't and you don't sleep with the boyfriend again. Sleeping with him sure didn't make you one of her friends. That is considered a betrayal of friendship.
he probably still likes you then and he wants to be your friend and then maybe he will talk to you about going out with you again.
Pleasure him sexually.
He would probably get in big trouble and never want to see you again but its a risk you will have to take
It depends on what kind of relationship you had and how he would react and if you and him will ever talk again.
well if u rly like him and want his trust back u should talk to him about everything that happened and dont leave anythin behind...that way he knows ur rly tellin him the truth. and promise him that ur never gunna do it again. and be with him all the time so he doesnt get the wrong idea that ur cheating on him again. I tried this with my boyfriend and it rly worked
I have had a few of these situations. Normally, It means that your friend doesnt believe you when you say that your not mad. But she could just be cranky with you and doesnt want to believe you or be your friend at the moment. I suggest, Leave her alone for about a week, let her blow off some steam. And then talk to her again.
He will just put it all behind him, he wont talk about it again
You have to say how sorry you are, and how stupid you have been, and how much you miss not being friends. Then - simply hope!
You obviously listen to your best friend. your best friend wouldn't lie to you. unless your best friend has a crush on your boyfriend. if he is cheating on you, break up with him because once they cheat, they never change and will cheat on you again. there are plenty of other boys out there, no matter how much he loves you!
Date his best friend, pretend to like him then dump him, date him again then cheat on him, steal all his friends >:)
he may still like you and want to be with you
ask her what do you think you did? then tell her what makes you think she is wrong for.ANSWERpersonally, i think that you should hint to her that you like her. if she doesnt have a boyfriends then you should flirt with her. show her that she was wrong about you even if you don't know what you did to make her want to go your seprate ways. when my boyfriend broke up with me i still really liked him but i didnt show it, i flirted with my friend who is also his friend, he couldn't take it anymore and finally asked me out again. now he is my current boyfriend again. hope this helped (:
If the boyfriend dumped you once, he'll dump you again. Go out with the friend. Do what your heart tells you.
Well you could try to be a REALLY great "friend" and soon enough he might start loving ya again !! =)
No, you can't un-ring a bell.
== == * The way guys work it is that they feel that their friend is not going to lie to them no matter what. The girl would have not talked to boy again (unless she still had feelings for him, and she wanted to work it.) I know for a fact that the girl would not talk to the friend again because they feel that they had over stepped there boundaries. I would had kicked the guy to the crub. Then I would have told my friend before I told her off that she went too far and she knew I had mad feelings for him and even loved him. * He should have kicked his friend to the curb too. It's not normal to forgive a friend for such a thing and it shows that your ex boyfriend was immature and was willing to put the full blame on you knowing full well his friend could have formed the word "no" to you and respected his friendship with your boyfriend. Others will say "hey, if it's free sex any guy would go for it" but that's simply not true. I have a friend that was in love with his buddies girlfriend and he spread untrue rumors around about her and like a goof her boyfriend walked out the door without any explanation to his girlfriend. He believed his male friend! Later, he found out through the grapevine that his friend had lied to him. He went up to his friend, told him off and never bothered with him again! He then went and apologized to his girlfriend and they are back together again. Now that's normal.
talk to him, try to be friends if that doesnt work ask him if he wants to hang out to gain his trust back.