It's time you grew up! Not only did you not apply safe sex when dating, now this young man is the father of your child and you've decided you love your ex! What makes you think your ex wants you back and if you're pregnant it's doubtful he'll want the responsibility of someones child. To carry another man's child when you professed your love to him and then race off to your ex is not high on a man's list and they find it hard to cope with and who could blame them.
The father of your child has every right to support his child and visit with his child. You will or have already broken this young man's heart. It appears that you are thinking about no one but yourself and that includes not thinking of the guy you are with or your baby. "Ex" means it's over!
Time to stand on your own two feet and forget the "Ex" and if you don't love the father of your baby then be honest, but be mature enough to let him be part of the baby's life and also mature enough to bring a healthy baby into the world, look after that baby and learn some independence before you rush off into another love affair!
Well, you've got yourself in a pickle. The best advice is to be honest with the father and make sure he understands that this is your decision. Be sure to let the father know that he is going to have relationship with his child even if the relationship between the two of you is no longer there. Good luck.
Tell Your Mum Everything First. Then Break Up With the Boy You Least Like. If He Asked Why Just Say ItWasn't Working Out But You Still Want Him To See The Child. But If Your Thinking For The Child, Stay With the Guy That Can Support The Child.
Depends on if he still loves her...or if he loves you. Because if he still loves her, you just have to let him go and move on. But, if he does love you, you have to realize the fact he's going to be a father, and have a child with him and theres nothing that can change that.
Key word is that you still Love her. Work together life is short I'm sure by now your ex is glad that she can have you for support. It will all work out in the end if you still love her.
don't because you still love them FOLLOW UR HEART :)
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He or she can break a heart of a person and nobody will love him or her.
If you love him as you say and are pregnant with his child then there should be no problem being together or getting married. However it appears you have a problem which you did fully explain and have reasons of your own for not wanting to settle down with him. Honesty is the best policy and yes, he does have a right to see his own child once the baby is born. Sit down and communicate how you feel and then separate from him, but be sure he understands he has every right to see his child if he so chooses.
To break up with the one you love just to go back with the mother of your child is not the solution. What you should be doing is staying with the person you love; meet with the mother of your child and tell her you will support your child and be part of that child's life and there is no reason why the mother of your child can't get out and work. To break up with the one you love and end up living with the mother of your child will only create heartbreak between the parents of that child and it will not be a good environment for that child.
If you still love him then you could try telling him that you would like to take a break because you are under a lot of stress and you still love but just want to be away from him for a little while.
it can be possible for an ex to still love you after a year of the break up...i know i still love my ex and its been about 2 years
When you break up with him he begs for you back:)
You tell him how you feel