The big deal is that the kids will spoil your time together.
i deal with not having a boyfriend by going to sleep early, and keeping my mind and self very busy.....
Yes well he allready had kids with his boyfriend and yes I said BOYFRIEND.
she has 2 kids
if they are genorous
No.
You can tell your boyfriend likes your kids by he saying nice things or giving them gifts
Get a new boyfriend.
Your boyfriend should be the guide to show you how to "deal" with it. You should be polite and courteous. If there are jealous feelings or you feel you cannot deal with it , you know it is time to move on.
Leave Him!
Deal with it?
let him acess to the kids but if you dont want to be with him then dont because it will result in fighting and stress and you dont want your kids to see that.. Good Luck!