You ask yourself if you would like your self respect and dignity back. Simple as that.
Thats probably your answer right there!
It depends. you have to decide if you will be better with him or without him, and whether or not you are prepared to forgive him.
You haven't included any details such as your age, the length of the marriage and why your husband doesn't work. It will be up to the court to decide once it reviews all those factors and more. And, it depends on the practices in your jurisdiction.You haven't included any details such as your age, the length of the marriage and why your husband doesn't work. It will be up to the court to decide once it reviews all those factors and more. And, it depends on the practices in your jurisdiction.You haven't included any details such as your age, the length of the marriage and why your husband doesn't work. It will be up to the court to decide once it reviews all those factors and more. And, it depends on the practices in your jurisdiction.You haven't included any details such as your age, the length of the marriage and why your husband doesn't work. It will be up to the court to decide once it reviews all those factors and more. And, it depends on the practices in your jurisdiction.
Only you can decide what you wish to do with that but remember it takes two to decide on having the affair in the first place so she is not the only one to blame they both are equally to blame. I realize you may be hurting and also wish to do the same to someone else and realistically most people would tell her husband but that is something only you can decide for yourself just as you are going to have to decide if your able to forgive and try to work out your marriage or let go and move on.
No!
Because you as his wife decide you want to move on (no matter what your marriage problems were) is not all about you, but your husband most likely still loves you and does not want to see you leave. If a husband does not abuse his wife verbally or physically; is hard working and a fairly good father, but it is not enough for the wife then it is confusing for the husband to know what he did wrong. At least give him an explanation if he was a fairly good husband. Too often in this modern age couples give up far too easy on their marriage. Marriage and old age are not for sissies.
Only you can make that decision. Marriage is about trust. If you don't feel that the trust can be repaired you need to take that into consideration when you make your decision. If you decide to try to make it work you should probably talk to a marriage counselor.
Arranged Marriage
Gay people did not decide this. The majority decided that same-sex marriage was crucial to society and to the LGBT community.
That is up to the couple to decide.
You personally cannot be sued, but the person may decide to claim on both of you, since you are in a marriage.
Hopefully you had proof that this woman's husband was cheating. If there is no truth to the accusations; the divorce happened then yes, her ex husband could have sued you because it's 'defimation of character' and you ruined not only his marriage but his reputation' and the courts would decide. However, if the husband did cheat and you witnessed it then you could be called in as a witness, but this generally does not happen.