Cheating on a mate is the worst rule of love you could ever break, but we all make mistakes and hopefully learn from them the first time. You've hurt your mate very deeply and it will take time and patience to win them back and this time you'd better mean it. If you have split-up over it then I would suggest calling them and meeting somewhere where you can talk. Hopefully they will find some forgiveness in their heart. Marcy Good luck Marcy
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∙ 2006-04-05 18:31:22you dont
Cheating with a lover or a friend is NOT GOOD! It a break of trust and loyalty and not something you can earn back easily. It's best to be up front and honest even if it does hurt your friend.
try to earn her trust but if she can not trust u agin tht is ur fault
The only thing you can do is little things that don't matter. Like if you promise to be somewhere be there. Earn his trust back.
Anyone that cheats has no backbone to face the person they are cheating on. Cheaters want it all. They haven't got the fortitude to tell the truth to their girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse because they are using them; if the relationship they are going to be in does not work out then they can go back to the life they had with their partner. Cheating ruins the trust in a marriage because the person cheating has broken that strong bond of trust and they lied and cheated which cuts deeply into the heart of the one they are suppose to love and are cheating on. If the person has cheated only once that can be human nature for some and a mistake and the first time cheater will realize that mistake and earn the trust back from their mate (if possible.) However, those that continue to cheat are never to be trusted and their mate should walk away and not look back.
tell him that you feel bad and that you want to earn back his trust. he will like it that your considering his feelings about what you did.
There are many authors and poets that write about the concept of trust. Trust is a human characteristic that is easily broken but hard to earn back.
you earn trust by telling the truth no matter what.
After a husband cheats and comes home to his wife, he has broken that serious bond of trust and will have to earn it back which will take months to possibly a year or more. The relationship between the husband and wife will not be the same as she will always be reminded of his cheating and wondering if he still is cheating. Time is the factor to gain the trust back and treating the wife with respect and with love. If the husband cannot display this affection he would be doing her a favor of leaving her.
There is nothing you can do. You lost their trust & now you must live with the consequences. All there is to do is wait & earn their trust back with the passing of time.
If you have done something wrong apologise. Do something nice for her.
you will have to earn the trust back and it will always be harder for him because he wont know if you will do it again.