How do you fight the urge to not call your ex after you just broke up?

Think of the things that broke you up and realize that it happened for a reason and right now you may not think it a good reason and be hurting to feel close again, but take the space and the time to find out what it is that you really want in a partner and what you are willing to give and if you can truelly see that happening in that relationship, it will happen. Find out who you are and define your being, enjoy the freedom, do new things with new people and stay positive.