If she acts differently around her friends than she does her family or you. If she acts very much the same then she's real
Have someone else do it for you.
If she was pretending to date you
Find another one. You dont steal someone else's girl dude.
no hard pushing this. just be nice, if she okays good other wise find someone else.
Wait- why are they still your girlfriend? If they're marrying someone else, then you aren't really together. I suggest that you try to move on- find someone else.
Move on and find someone else.
different guys like different girls' personalities. every guy can see through someone pretending to be someone else, so if you wan tto attract the right guy then act yourself.
They look and you but look away pretending to look at something else.
If she's going out with someone else then she is not available. Sorry dear, you'll just have to put it on the self and find someone else.
Find someone else.
You should respect the bro code and find someone else. If not talk to your best friend and explain to them that you like [girl's name] and ask him if he is serious about his relationship with her, if he is find someone else. If he's not then ask him if you can date her.
If a girl is not interested then she is not interested, don't try to persuade her or pressure her to it. find someone else who is interested.