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How do you find out if you like another girl who is your best friend if you already have a girlfriend but you enjoy being with the other girl more and does this mean you like your friend?

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2005-11-17 19:09:39
2005-11-17 19:09:39

Close friendships and love are very interconnected. I can only explain it by saying that while young we don't often associate this fact until much later in life, so it sounds like you've discovered this earlier on in your life. You could also simply be use to spending most of your time with your female friend and now that you have a girlfriend you don't see your friend as often as you use to and you miss her. It is highly possible for a man to have a true friendship with a female and vice-versa. My husband has a couple of female friends and I have a couple of male friends. I have them over for dinner a few times a year. Your mate should be your best friend in a good, strong relationship. You should feel like you can go to them with any problem and they will keep the discussion between just the two of you. You should feel safe and happy with your mate. Since you don't know for sure exactly what your feelings are towards you friend, I would be honest with your girlfriend and just tell her you miss your friend and could either the 3 of you go out for an evening every so often or could she come over for dinner. This way you are being honest with your girlfriend and it will give you the time to adjust to your feelings and see the two women together. There are feelings to be considered here ... all 3 of you. If you find out that you truly love your friend, then you are just going to have be honest with your girlfriend, even if your friend doesn't feel the same towards you. Good luck Marcy

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