Answer
First of all I'd say that you would have to love her a lot to forgive her for cheating, but as the old saying goes there are always two sides to a story. Maybe she wasn't feeling loved by you. Maybe there is a lot of tension in your marriage and she was fed up with possible bickering and hollering in your home. I can only surmise the problems, but usually neither the man or the woman in a marriage cheats unless something drives them to do it. Since it is you asking the question, perhaps if you look deep enough into your heart you will find the answers, but be honest with yourself, don't deny the possibility that you could have treated her like a dog and in doing so, you drove her into the arms of another man. If you love her enough to write this question then do both of you a favor and go and get marital help. Good luck
That's a big question. First let me say this. If you can't truly forgive your wife then you need to end it with her because you're just going to be miserable and so is she. I learned that lesson, I had my ex step out on me and i thought i could trust him again, but I never could. Funny thing was that he never let me down again for two years.. he was determined to prove to me that he wouldn't do that again.. but because I never fully trusted him and was always questioning him, it got to him bad. Eventually he stopped caring and left me because of it. Weird how that can work out. I guess you need to be honest with yourself. Do you think you can forgive her.. not want to forgive her but do you think you can? I don't know what she did, but once trust is tested or gone then it's very hard to get it back. If you want to keep your marriage because of the principal of the matter then you wont truly forgive her. If you want to keep your marriage because you love HER then go to counseling together either through church or a doctors office. You can't do it alone if it's a really deep hurt. I don't know you, but I'm just trying to let you know what not to do. Take some time for yourself and think about things. Sometimes it's scary to imagine life without that person you've been with forever you you think you can forgive them, but in the long run the best thing for you would be to let them go. Just decide where you land in all this and go from there. Just don't put it all on you. She has to help in the process of forgiveness also.
i personally didn't ever forgive my boyfriend for cheating but if its someone you really love it may take a while but you'll learn to deal and if they aren't worth staying with you have to just realize he cheated and found someone better and that motivated me to be alto better and i had people to build my ego cause i was so sad but now i don't care he cheated cause he was never worth the tears and half the time they say they cheated to get out of a relationship easy
you can say we can be friends and then get 2 know them as friends after that you can try to help him/her change their ways help them see that cheating hurts people then when they figure that out you will be close to them and you can go on as friends or get back together
If you are will to give him or her another chance, doing with knowledge that he or she had sex with another person. If you can liv with that, simply let it go. Your spouse through mud on you. You can take a shower and let that mud go down the drain or you can wear it as a constant reminder of what he or she did.
You may forgive, but never stay. Cheating goes beyond disrespect for your partner and staying with a person who was okay doing all the things he/she committed to do only to you, to another person is a lack of respect to you and you deserve better.
you place your self in that persons place and try to understand him or herWhat is the population of Mexico?
There is no quick fix. You two need to work on communication & trust. A couples therapy/counseling session is also recommended.
you have to get out there and mingle or something.
I think that it is possible to love again after an affair. I think you didn't stop loving, it's the anger and humiliation that hides the love...if you want to love again you have to forgive trully. It's not easy, takes work, but it's possible. Below there's a link to an article about how to forgive a spouse for cheating, it may be very helpful to you.
" Cheating" is when you sleep or had sex who is not your spouse. And sometimes you fell in love with this person who is not your spouse..
I'm not sure if a person can love someone unconditionally after his affair because first of all, you are disappointed at him. To build up trust and reliability, it could take a long time. however, if he truly apologizes and understands what he has done, and you forgive him for it, then you should at least try to love him. after all, he is your spouse.
When a spouse gives their other spouse all their love; trust and loyalty they always feel their spouse will do the same so when the spouse has an affair it comes as a shock to the other spouse. It is heartbreaking; that treasured bond of trust you once had in your spouse has gone and not easily earned back. It is normal to envision your cheating spouse being with someone else and enjoying themselves and it makes you question yourself as far as 'did I do something wrong; perhaps not enough and I let my partner down'; 'is our sexual relationship not good enough and did I do anything wrong; to 'does my cheating spouse think I am not attractive enough' or in some cases 'have I lost my looks and I'm too old and they don't want me anymore.' This makes the victim of a cheating spouse feel insecure and eventually they become angry and resentful and find it difficult to forgive their spouse for the cheating; the victim cannot feel sympathy for their spouse; the victim has a deep seated urge to pay back their cheating spouse for all the hurt he/she caused them and this in turn involves a poor sexual relationship because the victim feels when their cheating spouse is making love they are still thinking of the other person they cheated with. Marriage counseling can help, but it is entirely up to you (you hold the power) to either move on from the marriage or see a marriage counselor to learn the tools to deal with any problems in your marriage, but it takes the both of you to make it work. As far as your trust in your spouse it will take time and it is entirely up to them to earn that trust again.
No most certainly not. If you are already cheating on your spouse and on top of that don't love them then do both of you a favour and let go.
Could you please give us a little more information as to what you have done for her to forgive you. Thanks
Opinion: It depends to why she did it and who pushed her to be in that direction. I don't think any women, married or single, will just betray her husband or boyfriend because she wanted to have an affair with someone new.Opinion: It's up to you. If she wants your forgiveness, you might honestly consider giving it to her. But if she is not remorseful and wants to continue in the affair, then it may be time to go your own ways.
To love is to forgive.
Yes because if it was before you got together then it's not like cheating. But if it was while you were together then that depends on whether you love her enough to forgive her.
Well 1st of all if love the person you shouldn't be cheating on them. and it all depends on what you did. Its really up to the person If they want to forgive you or not. Since a relationship is all about trust you can start by tring to regain that trust. Apologize in a face to face conversation not email or phone etc. tell the person your reason for cheating .... to give you a 2nd chance and you MIGHT get it and start by trying to regain trust like i said.
Forgive Me My Love was created in 2000.
It means that you have a great capacity for forgiveness. It could be a good thing, or it could be bad. Only time will tell.