How do you get BACK to see your netgear page so that you can undo what you accidentally did - I selected turn access control on and then lost wireless access to my own router page to undo that?
You might choose option do not allow edit settings through wireless. If you have the password you have a choices to connect to the router directly using a lan cable and change your settings. If it didn't work just reset the router settings which is the worst scenario but you don't have much of choice. Each router has a reset button, read the manual to find out how to reset your router.
Hookup a netgear wireless router to a netgear non wireless router and the modem?
You can hook up a wireless router to your already existing modem and non-wireless router. However, you need to set up the wireless router by changing it's LAN IP address and by disabling it's router function so it will function as a wireless access point to avoid conflict with your existing non-wireless router. Click http://www.supportrix.com/SUPPORTRIX/Main.php?do=LearnMore for more info.