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How do you get a girl's trust back after you were drunk and cheated?

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βˆ™ 2006-08-23 18:41:12

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Honestly, I don't know that you can. It depends on the girl in question, your history with her and so many other variables. If you cannot see yourself without her, and you would never make the mistake of cheating again, then there are ways to show her you mean her no harm in the future, but ultimately she has to determine whether the risk is worth it. Would you trust someone again, knowing that it took only an excess of alchohol for them to betray you? Think of how you would feel, and what would help you to trust that person again, and maybe that will give you some answers as to what is needed in this situation. Other things you can do are to deal with the underlying issues that caused your behavior, show her that you are serious by getting counselling together and for yourself, and of course making her feel - no, making her know that you are never going to hurt her again. Extra affection and attention (at the right time) is good, as well. It's a lifelong thing, though. If you're not ready to be a stable, honorable, faithful man to her, then let her move on. =Answer= Getting drunk is no excuse for cheating. I now many men who have one too many and don't cheat on their girlfriends or wives. It had to be something deep inside of you that you never faced with your girlfriend. Once you break that trust it's hard to get back, but remember, everyone makes a mistakes and the important thing is "what did you learn from it?" No one is perfect and if my husband should cheat on me once I know it would hurt me, but I'd say my piece and give him another chance. Try contacting your girlfriend and have an honest talk with her. Tell her you feel like a jerk and you are sorry for hurting her, but remind her that everyone makes mistakes and ask her to give you another chance. If she does then you'd better learn a good lesson from this and NEVER cheat again. If you feel the relationship is not working out then be honest and sit that person down and tell them so and then move on.

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