How do you get an abuser to stop calling emailing and stalking after the breakup?

I have bern through some very similar situations. It is very confusing when a person will not leave you alone, and how to go about stopping it in a nice manner. Sometimes just telling the person can work, but thr are somepeople that find little things that we do to keep driving them forward, you need to make sure your not leading them on at all! Make it very clear that you want to be left alone! then, if that dose not work, get

a restraning order! Get a friend to look out for you, even get a security system, a big dog, what ever it takes. I have bern through some very similar situations. It is very confusing when a person will not leave you alone, and how to go about stopping it in a nice manner. Sometimes just telling the person can work, but thr are somepeople that find little things that we do to keep driving them forward, you need to make sure your not leading I have bern through some very similar situations. It is very confusing when a person will not leave you alone, and how to go about stopping it in a nice manner. Sometimes just telling the person can work, but thr are somepeople that find little things that we do to keep driving them forward, you need to make sure your not leading them on at all! Make it very clear that you want to be left alone! then, if that dose not work, get

a restraning order! Get a friend to look out for you, even get a security system, a big dog, what ever it takes. ok just dont go to the cops:]