How do you get back an ex who just broke up with you?
You can't change someone else's feelings towards you and it doesn't solve the problems that caused the previous relationship to end.
a) Don't be friends with your ex, or at least don't do that right now. You'll end up putting your life on hold and resenting your ex even more when they move on with their life (i.e. start a new relationship). It's best for both people to initially have time and space apart until both are OK with the fact that they won't have a relationship again. Don't call or contact them and if your ex contacts you, be honest that you both need space and you think it's best if you don't hang out or contact each other for now.
b) Get out with friends, take up stuff you were too busy for previously. Try to keep your mind of off the ex (yeah, easier said than done, but do it anyway.)
c) Don't show your anger and hurt. Be friendly but distant when you see them. Let them see the best of you, what made you attractive to them.
d) If you meet someone you find attractive, go for it! As time passes, you will find someone else and you may accept that breaking up was the best thing for both of you.
Do you mean How do you get your ex girlfriend to go back out with you because if she's your girlfriend then you guys are still goig out. if that was your question it depends on who broke up with who because if she breoke up with you then she dont want you anymore if you broke up with her there's a chance she might want you back just ask her.
tell him you miss him.. or if you were the one that broke up with him tell him it was the biggest mistake and you were wrong for what you did. if he broke up with you then chances are he doesnt want you back.. guys have big egos and some might go back out with an ex but most of them wont. and if he was the one to break up with you then…
If you want him back all you have to do is talk to him about why you broke up with him and just explain your feelings and see what he say, but never apologize for saying how you feel because that's like apologizing for saying whats real. If he doesnt want you back then he wasnt the one made for you. Move on life goes on!
Is it stupid to be hopeful about getting back together when your ex just broke up with you for good?
it all depends on who did the breaking up, who broke up with who, if you broke up with your ex it would be easier to become from, but you may need to be careful and keep things clear with your ex, such nothng more than friends, if they broke up with you, make sure your over them completely before trying to be friends. It may just hurt you if your not truly over them.
It all depends on who broke up with who and who asks out who. Say he broke up with you and then wanted you back, if you're afraid it might happen again then don't go back to it. But if you broke up with him and you both like each other and you think it might last longer this time, go for it! If you do go back to him and you brakeup again then…