I went through the same thing and it took almost two months before we started talking again. It takes time and some space for each person to think about what he or she wants. But if it's meant to be it will happen. Let time and space take it course. Good luck.
by talking to them and having it!
Either they want to get back together or they want to be friends
No;of course.He's just "talking" to you.
Don't just or ask to join in the conversation
if he's your ex then why do you care if he's still talking to his ex ? get real .
I guess so. You should have stopped talking to the other guy if you were serious about going back out with him.
i am a girl, but i think you sould try to make her laugh, and then ask her back. maybe get some flowers or chocolate.
tell him you know and don't care.
First you should make sure that getting back with your ex is what you really want and not a fall back plan. After that start talking to him and tell him what happened and how you feel. You might have to basically start over in the relationship because he may not trust you like he did before. Talking and honesty are the key.
He might not feel comfterable talking about it, or it brings back bad memories. If you know his ex, try asking her too.
I'm not sure if I'm understanding this question correctly. If it's your ex though, it doesn't matter who they're talking to behind your back. If it's not your ex however, then there are some trust issues going on there. Big time!!
You can win your ex back after a 1 year separation by simply talking to her sweetly and treating her well and she will be yours again as long as you have been talking here and there.