Generally, if the parents are unmarried the mother has sole custody and control in most states until the father can establish his paternity. Remember, a child's mother can always be identified by medical records. Since the father didn't give birth and he was not legally married at the time of the birth he can establish his paternity through a DNA test. A paternity test can be arranged through the court. Once paternity is established in court, the father can request visitations or custody through the court. If the mother retains physical custody she can request that the court issue a child support order. If the father gets physical custody he can request a child support order.
Dad would first need to follow prevailing law in his state or province where the child was born (if in North America or country if in another location) to establish himself as the biological parent and have the birth certificate amended based on the same. Since procedural law varies by location, it is very helpful if you would either edit your question to add that information or ask a new question including it.
If you live in the US... The child having the father's last name has NOTHING to do with custody. If Dad is listed on the birth certificate as the father, then both parents have equal custodial rights until a court declares otherwise--you need a custody order. If Dad is not listed on the birth certificate, it will be a simple thing for him to petition the court to establish paternity and once that's done he can then petition for custody/visitation.
Unless you are constrained by some legal requirement you are free to travel with your children as you please.
Generally, if the parents are unmarried the mother has sole custody and control in most states until the father can establish his paternity. Remember, a child's mother can always be identified by medical records. Since the father didn't give birth and he was not legally married at the time of the birth he must establish his paternity by signing the birth certificate at the time of birth (waiving DNA testing rights) which must be done with mother's consent. If he doesn't sign the birth certificate then he must seek another way to establish his paternity and that is done through a DNA test. A paternity test can be arranged through the court. Once paternity has been established the father can request visitations, joint custody, full custody or the court will set up a schedule of regular child support payments for the child if she is to remain in the custody of her mother.
My daughter has my last name, her dad isn't on the birth certificate but he does pay child support. can i change her last name when i get married and how? My daughter has my last name, her dad isn't on the birth certificate but he does pay child support. can i change her last name when i get married and how?
If the parents have never married and live separately with their own parents, a court would need to decide on custody. Typically, the court will place the child with the mother, but the best interests of the child are primary.
Depends on whether you mean changing the birth certificate or in signing papers. If attempting to change the birth certificate, than you could sue, however simply having the child do that on school papers, not much. This can become a complicated issue, so see link below
Your guardian decides where you live until you are 18yo. Atm I'm guessing that is your mother. If your father wants custody of you he would have to petition the court for your custody unless your mother gives her consent. They then have to go to court and modify the custody agreement. The birth certificate is irrelevant but if you father have not been to court to prove paternity by a DNA test he does not have parental rights. He would need to do that first. Custody, visitation and child support are parental rights.
file for sole custody and file for child abuse and you will have possibly sole custody of thew child
In order for a mother to be charged with kidnapping, there must be a custody order awarding someone else custody, or her parental rights must be terminated. The police would charge her with kidnapping. The father or any other adult could report the crime to the police.
If you live in the US... Children are not property and therefore cannot be 'willed'. You can state in your will who you would like to receive custody, but the court is not required to abide by it. For example, if Mom has custody of a child, she dies and her will states that she wants her sister to receive custody, but Dad wants custody...Dad gets custody, unless he can be proved unfit, because Dad has first legal right to custody (Mom's wishes don't change that).
Yes of course he does assuming that he is the real dad.
Taht's dependent on the custody orders.