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so I'm friends with this guy i like and hes a year older than me. my friend said he goes to her SSunday school and that he is really mean to everyone. i asked him if that was true and when he asked who said that so i said her name. i told him that i sent her a text saying to f@#$ off even though i didn't. i told her i was sorry after i told her what i did and said i would fix it. i told him that she meant someone else. i never told her bout the text message thing but he told me to tell her to text him and now I'm afraid I'm gonna get caught and he will never like me and she will hate me. i know this seems awful. What should i do?

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Well, it is always good to tell the truth. Depending on how big the lie was, the truth is always going to come out either way, so it's best if you just get it over with. If this person you lies to cares about you, they should understand why you lied. They may be mad for some time, but if you are a kind person and a trustworthy friend, everything will work out in the end. Tell them, "I need to talk to you in private." Once you get the person to be alone, say, "I have to tell you something. I lied when I said..." That's where you say what the lie you told was. Then say the truth. "The truth is..." Then, if you want, you can try to make them feel bad about being mad at you, but only if they are upset. "You can be mad at me if you want." Give them what they want at first. It also makes you come off as sincere. "But, really, what will being mad do? I'll be upset because you are mad at me, and you'll be grumpy all the time because you're always mad." I hope this helps and good luck! :-)

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Confess

Or you can hide it with another lie that is not as bad... but be careful.

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