How do you get over a guy who never has and never will care about you?

Answer 1

All things take time. You must fill your mind and heart with something near and dear to you. It doesn't have to be another lover. First and foremost, fill your life with God and let the Holy Spirit be your eternal friend, "who sticks closer than a brother." Second, find your purpose in life, and put your energies into accomplishment. As well, don't try to extinguish altogether the memories of this person. Just keep them in perspective. You have the rest of your life to live, and you will be special to someone.

You have to give it time! If that person isn't willing to give you their time. They were never worth yours!

I just went to a VERY painful divorce..but guess what? I am completely healed and released from that person. I prayed this simple prayer EVERY day..several times a day and it literally CHANGED MY LIFE. Even if you don't believe prayer works..just try it..Also remember, regardless of what faith you are..Your WORDS have power: I thank you God that I am mentally, emotionally, and physical detached from _________. I thank you that I have forgiven them and that MY happiness is not determined by their successes or failures..In Jesus's name...Now watch your life change!

I'm 14, and 2 years ago I started seeing this lad, we lasted 8 months then broke up. 1 month later we got back together for 4 months, but that didn't last either. I still miss him now, but it seems that the more I try to get over him, the more I miss him and want him back. I'm trying to move on with a new life and new partner now, but I can't help but think that I'm missing my old life.

You have to try and move on, like I'm trying to do. Believe me, it won't be easy. I still cry when I see him at school, I keep having memories of us together, but I need to move on. It's the only thing to do.

I have been in love twice, and both times the person has not loved me back. The second also changed my sexuality which made it much worse. I got over the first person by:

- Finding someone else to love...

It seriously worked and it made me realize how much better I could be treated and I realized that I deserved better.

- Secondly, reduce contact with the person...

Do not text them. Do not visit their Facebook page (I know its hard). Do not go to places you may see the person flirt with others. This is the hardest, but sooner or later, you will learn not to care so much anymore.

- Thirdly, use your emotion positively...

I am now writing songs because of my heartache and helping other people on here with answers. I've started this today and I feel better already!

- Face reality...

When your alone at night and have an opitunity to think about them, think about OTHER STUFF! Go off on random tangents or keep busy.

- And yes: time is the healer...

The longer time spent apart, the better result. I say this, but do not leap into their arms the minute you see them again. Seriously, for the time thing to work; lose the contact!

- Be honest with yourself...

I was honest with my sexuality and feel so much more free now. Admit you love the person or tell your best friend about it.

If the person you love is your best friend:

(My situation both times) Do all of the above and stay away from them, and unfortunately you have to lose them as a friend semi-permenantly. Otherwise you will never stop loving them! Space out and fall out of love, then become friends again without the emotional attachment.

I am still getting over the second person. Good luck and I wish you all the best! I'm only 16 but I love to help in any way I can.

Answer 2

sadly there is no real way to get over a guy other than time. A few things that may help you along the way is to try and eliminate him form your life if he calls dont answer. you do not need any stress. just know that the people that will be able to help you through this are your closest friends weather they be guys or girls... and know that any guy in his right sense would not try and take advantage of you in your delicate time...unless he is a spineless bastard. so you will just have to wait it out

Answer 3

well.... idefinatley had my share of feelings where i had to get over someone which was easy.. but there was one guy.... and i loved him to death...

but the way i got over him was simple... i found another guy.... and i wrote down the bad things hes done to me and guess waht? three days later i didnt give a care in the world about him haha

Answer 4

okey listen

just ignore him as if he dosent mean to u nything

dont give much importance

only talk to him when its needed and try to avoid it as much as possible

if he smiles smile a bit

be good, improve ur presentattion, keep urself updated and beautifl

be slim if ur not.. be good in ur academics

enjoy and have fun enjoy and have fun wid others

it really works just try it worked on my frd and surely tell me

good luck

Answer 5

You may not get over it right away but if you just call that person and tell them how you feel they might feel the same way about you but, you will never know until you see what happens.