How do you get over your boyfriend leaving you to go back to his family because he feels guilt but says he still loves you but his wife won't let him go?

He doesn't love you enough to stay. He'd rather be with his "real" family. You need to just get over it and date "single" men. Men that are tied up in family usually stay with their family cuz they have already made a family, they aren't looking to start anotehr one.