Why would you want to get him back in love with you by coersion. He should want to love you back all on his own. It sounds like the relationship has past this stage anyway. If he cheated and now has feelings for another woman, is he even worth it. How would you be able to trust him in the future. For what ever reason he cheated in the first place, which he should have been a man and come to you before hand and let you know that his feelings for you werent the same and he was interested in someone else. Rarely, do people meet on the whim and suddenly have sex the first time they see each other, so in other words, they had to have been working up to the cheating over time. Anyway, I would say that unless he says he wants to work on the marriage, by either counseling together or seperately, that you face the truth and move on with your life. Get a divorce and find a man that will be honest with you no matter what and give you the love and respect that you deserve. I know all is easier said then done but your not the first you wont be the last and you have more strength then you realize. GOOD LUCK.
Most likely not. But it depends on the husband. Everyone is different.
you don't forgive him he cheated on you and had sex with the other woman and made her have a baby just tell him go away and i will find another man to love and be in my life forever
No. Snitches lie in ditches.
It doesn't matter why he cheated, but the fact he cheated that would enough for me. I would hand him his suitcase and lock the door behind him. Once a cheater always a cheater.
More likely than not. Either that or she will cheat on him. ANSWER: It depends, if your husband is not satisfied with this woman especiially in bed, oin scale of 1-10, 7% he will. He might also don't because he probably love the other woman. No married man who leaves his wife and kids just because of sex. It has something to do with feelings and when our heart dictate it, then that's it.
now nothing can be done. the bond is over.
No we can't. Our husband is the one that pursued the other woman. The only fault of the other woman is she didn't say no to your husband. What you can do is talk to your husband and ask him why. If he lied then it's time to rearrange your life without him...
OF CORSE! dont let him cheat on her any longer. go ahead and tell her ;]
Her husband has probably cheated on her more than once and any woman who is loyal to their husband and finds out they have cheated is extremely hurt and certainly will become angry, but few seek revenge. If you feel threatened by her and you know her ex then the three of you should meet and you tell her right to her face you had nothing to do with him; get up and tell the two of them to grow up and he should tell her the truth and then walk away (do this in a public place.)
Ask the other woman if she says no then he is if she says yes then she is also. Why dont you just dump your husband and then you will know.
Far better your question should read "How do you deal with the fact your husband cheated and created a child by another woman? Each person (Wife) will deal with this kind of situation in their own way. The shock will either break up her relationship with her husband, or she will forgive him if she has played a part in the circumstances leading up to his infidelity i.e not being able to satisfy his needs. There are two problems here, your own and that of the other woman and her child. Do you forgive your husband and try and solve your differences, obviously there are some. And what about the child, does the other woman want it, if not would you consider taking the child into your own family, after all your husband is the father. Do you have children of your own, what will become of them if you and your husband separate. It will take time to completely forgive your husband if you ever can. I cannot give you a satisfactory answer as there is to much at stake, but I would suggest that you try and forgive your husband and keep your family or your relationship together if you love him. Meet with the other woman and try and come to an agreeable solution regarding the child.
ANSWER: I don't think it's smart to talk to this other woman who had the affair with your husband. I know if you do, it will give you some closure on why he cheated on you. You will not learn anything useful. Even if she was gracious or friendly and give you all the tiny details about your husband, how would that help you? This mistress doesn't owe you nothing, even if she was the party to your husband's infidelity but he is the one who cheated on you not the other woman. Your husband made the vows of fidelity to you, not his mistress. He brought her into your marriage and put you in this situation You will not gain anything if you choose to talk to her, so if I were you I wouldn't. I am not supporting the mistress in any case, but I was in your shoes before and take my words for it, even she didn't say no to my husband, it was him who started the relationship.
Yes, you can file for divorce in Alberta or anywhere else in Canada if a husband has dated and cheated on his wife. The wife just has to seek legal counsel and serve her husband with divorce papers.
Look at it objectively. Social status, family,kids' future, love vs self respect,independence.see that your cheat husband doesn't pledge his money to the other woman or marry her, if you plan to stick to him. get the financials clear.
He doesnt have to be there for you devorce him if you have been abandoned.
I'm sorry to say this but your husband is already emotionally connected with the other woman. In scale of 1-10, when a married men get involve with another woman and he always get back to her mistress he is following his heart. In short your husband is in love with her. But if your husband only wanted sex from this woman, after the first time he will look for another one that he can be with. Why don't you talk to your husband and tell him that it's time to have a separate life so you wouldn't have to deal with his affair. The truth is, no one in their right mind will put up what the married man is doing...
they would have to tell their husband and forget about their crush coz it isnt right to have feelings for other men at all!
That is totally for you, your husband and the other woman to decide.
No, a woman should not feel special if her husband said she was a lot better than his mistress because he cheated on her and he will continue to cheat.
It depends on how her husband reacts, what the woman wants to do, and other factors. Each sitution is unique, but she could stay with her husband, leave her husband for the other man, or something else.
In PR it means a woman that has been cheated by her husband. It can also mean bad woman or even the best woman. It can be an insult or a vulgar way of flattering, meaning you are the best. It all depends on the context. Hope it helps.
Yes it is a double life for your husband. For a married man with this length of relationship already have deep feelings for the other woman. I'm surprise that you still living with him. You need to focus on yourself now. You don't deserve this life and for your husband to have double life, shame on him. It's time for you to move on and tell him that this is not what you wanted. 5 long years are the worst for you to have. Good luck.
mabey they still have feelings dont worry about it unless u have anything else suspisious