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One option would be to try the economic approach. The cost of working outside the home vs. staying home to care for the children and attend to the neverending chores of a wife and mother. Childcare alone can take up a large portion of a persons earnings and should be the main consideration. Then add applicable transportation costs, gasoline, maintenance, parking, etc. for a vehicle or commuter fees such as a subway, train, bus. Wardrobe expenses including dry cleaning or the need for special uniforms. Of course there are lunches, time taken off when children are ill or have doctor, dental or whatever appointments, a higher tax bracket and on and on and on. Often when couples sit down and figure up the pros vs cons of two incomes the results are not what they would have expected, especially when a person is thinking in $$$ signs instead of using common sense. A question one might wish to consider in such a situation, is why a person would use threats and intimidation against someone they have professed to "love and honor"? A mother should raise her children, not a daycare. It is one thing if the family is really struggling and the money situation is desperate, but quite another if you can afford to be a stay-at-home mom. Ask the husband if he wants a stranger to raise the kid(s) or you. If you want him to get a good firm 'talking to' call 1-800-DrLaura during the daytime while her show is on. I like her stance on this issue, she will help him see the light. If this is an issue of him simply agreeing to let you do this, maybe you need counciling. But in all fairness i must also argue for him... Do you really want to live out your life without knowing what its like to be apart of a workforce? do you really want to list your career as homemaker? maybe he just wants you to challenge yourself.

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