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I can see you were unable to complete your question, so I'll do the best I can with advice and then if you like, you can answer my post and we can discuss your problem further. First off, kick that husband of yours in the slats! He's the initial cause of all the pain he has created in your relationship. Some men 40+ go through an actual male menopause (it's no longer called the mid-life crisis) and they begin to feel old, need to know they are still attractive, so flirt and end up having an affair with usually a younger woman. Some men get over it, while others continue this practice. This can also apply to women who are getting older. I gather from your post (correct me if I'm wrong) that your husband makes fairly good money and you are probably wondering if this "young thing" is trying to go for the gold and that includes stealing your husband. Well, mistress' seldom come out the winner even if the husband and wife divorce. What the mistress doesn't get is the fact that once a man finds a taste of freedom he is not likely to settle into another long-term relationship, or, he really truly misses his wife and strives to get her back. The long and the short of it is the mistress' is the one that gets the kick in the fanny and well deserved. Both of you need to sit down and MAKE TIME to discuss your marriage problems. He doesn't know what your needs are and how you feel and vice-versa. Try to remain calm and talk about how each of you feels and not take the criticism to heart. It's important a man and wife express their feelings to each other because as we all know men and women simply don't think along the same lines. There is no point with threatening each other, fighting over materialistic things, but just simply get down to basics and try to save the marriage. Good luck Marcy

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