Theres loads of ways to find out if a guy likes you for real n not just messin you about: 1. the guy will listen to you n ur problems - if you talk to him and he listens, he's gotta be genuine 2. If you get as far as telling each other you love them, they will look you in the eye and tell you. and wont stutter. And finally - the one that more often shows he's not the one, is they 'say' they've hit a guy who annoys you. even if you havent seen it. Just to impress you. This sounds like he's the one, but it usually means, hes a joke.