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Gay Lesbian and Bisexual

How do you know if your child is gay?

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November 19, 2010 9:49PM

If you suspect it, it's likely he is: but you have to wait for him to feel comfortable to tell you. He won't ever tell you if you seem like you'll have a problem with it, and if you do have a problem with it that will likely drive a wedge between your long-term relationship, so it's best to make sure that you provide a household in which your kids feel safe being different in whatever ways they may be different. Bear in mind also that being gay is inborn, not a choice, and the amount of time you refuse to accept this is the amount of time that the wedge between you and your gay child will continue to separate you.