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How do you know if your husband is cheating if he has lied about little things in the past and you are worried that if you confront him he will lie again?

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2005-10-20 05:56:41
2005-10-20 05:56:41

the best thing to do, and I know from experience it is hard but the best thing to do if you suspect things is to not ask anything!!!believe me on this one , if you start asking he will get sneaker and slicker. whats the point in asking , hes not going to tell the truth,it will just give him more reason to want to be with someone else because he will think you are nagging him. men usually act mean when they are being dishonest. the very best thing to do is borrow someone elses car and follow him,do not let him catch you doing this. if he has a cell phone , check it for funny numbers and call the numbers to see who answers, dont say who you are just make up a name to ask for then say you have the wrong number. if you suspect hes calling other women from your home phone or cell phone, push redial after he has used the phone to see who he has called. check your computers history to see what hes doing online. check his car for clues that someone besides him has been there. find out his hours at work by calling his job. most likely hes not coming home on time if hes the dishonest type. these are just a few things that I have done. oh yeah get a small tape recorder and put it in his car, or in your house when you leave to see what hes up to.

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