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We can't really be sure if our spouse ever regrets the affairs that he or they did. As far as I know if my husband will ever regret it, he wouldn't have done it and ruined our life. If his excuse is all about his personal needs, that will not be his problem with me because I always think about him first.
Years ago when I discovered his love affairs with this married woman he met on a dating site nothing was different from him except 2 things, he always in a hurry to leave the house and always on the phone. When I caught him yes he probably regret it because he got caught and our children knew. I never seen or knew a married man who regret what he did.
he will be hurt and confused
Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you
None. Having an affair is not a criminal matter for her. I don't know what country you live in, but maybe your husband is guilty of some adultery crime.
Most good wives married expecting their husbands would be faithful and depending on the personality of her husband it is possible he still could be loving and caring towards her and she has no reason to think he is cheating. There be no signs from him he is cheating. Cheaters rarely win and often find themselves alone and left with many regrets.
Ask the other woman if she says no then he is if she says yes then she is also. Why dont you just dump your husband and then you will know.
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
Divorse to husband , breakupwith boyfriend
Take what you said to your husband (because, you know, he's not without blame for this, either), and modify it as you see fit.
Most definitely - sounds like the start of an affair or they are already having an affair, confront your husband or her face to face.
No
ANSWER: Even if your husband is an affair material, that will not be his legit reason why he is having an affair. It can't be that he is not getting his needs at home, it will explain why he ask you to marry him if he will betrayed you.