- Doesn't talk to you
- Ignores you
- Doesn't come home as often as usual
- Doesn't come home at night
- Seems like is with someone else
I will use my own personal experience. I have done everything I wife can do and more but when the marriage is finally over, everything we do are more different than normal. My ex hardly talk to me, even when we started our life together. His always busy and don't make time anymore especially to me, even though he promised me that after the navy, it will be my turn. Always staying inside his office till early morning. He kept himself busy all the time even on a weekend. I could tell you much more but I think the only way you will know is ask your spouse.