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You don't -- you leave -- they never change and it gets worse. Trust me. You'll lose your sense of self and believe you are worthless. You'll waste the only life you have trying to please your spouse, which isn't possible. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and kindness, which is the foundation all marriages are built on. Educate yourself so you can help yourself.
Anwer2: You can live with him, but YOU CANNOT EVER MAKE HIM CHANGE! Stand up for yourself starting NOW. Tell your spouse you WILL NOT tolerate that behavior one more minute and you do not have to. Can't you see that you deserve to be treated like a beautiful, cherished person. It's not okay for you to let him treat you like this. God loves and cherishes you and so should your spouse. Find a good mental health physician and let the healing begin by leaving him behind in the dust.
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∙ 14y agoThe same way you get any abusive boyfriend out of the house:
1.) After he leaves, take all of his stuff, put it in boxes outside of your house.
2.) Change your locks. This isn't as hard as it sounds, locksets can be found for cheap at any hardware store, and are changed in minutes as long as you have the right screwdriver. If this sounds too hard, get a quote from a locksmith. This sort of thing is done very quickly, and for a reasonable price.
3.) Delete him from your contacts. email, IM, phones. If your phone is capable of it, place his number on ignore. If you receive any calls from an unknown number, let the voicemail catch it. There are only three people who will call you that you don't already know: wrong numbers, telemarketers, and your abuser.
4.) If you don't want to directly confront him. Make a sign that he can see from outside that very clearly states that you don't wish to contact him anymore, and possibly that you're willing to call the police if he harasses you.
5.) If he starts harassing you, starts stalking you, or starts threatening you. Call the police.
These steps may sound kind of hard to do, but it's actually really easy when you're ready to stop being a victim, and ready to take back your life.
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∙ 13y agoCall the police or divorce him
If there is a threat of physical violence, you may also be able to obtain a protective or restraining order, requiring him to leave your home and stay away from you.
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∙ 14y agoYou don't - either seek help through marriage counselling or through talking about it, or separate.
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How to get abusive boyfriend out of daughters house?
Call the police and/or get a restraining order.
Is your boyfriend abusive?
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
How do you use the word abusive in sentences?
you must get out of abusive relationships. Boyfriend must never be abusive !
How do you get rid of your wives ex boyfriend?
If he come to the house you are living in and is abusive then you can ask him to leave. If he refuses to leave then call Local Police and explain why you are calling. The Police should then come to the house and talk with both you and the ex-boyfriend. Police will then decide if ex-boyfriend should be arrested or not.
If your mentally and occasionally physically abusive mother accuses you being posessed is she mentally ill or just too religious?
Both.
Who was Mary j abusive boyfriend?
KC
If your boyfriend is mentally and physically abusive and blames it on his anger problems and his family situation should you have hope he'll change with his counseling?
well does your boyfriend abuse you? jw.. but you kinda should hope he would change in counseling. and of this doesnt help you need a close friend to talk to you about this:)
Your son has been mentally abusive for years how do you get yourself strong enough to not take the abuse?
Get some serious space between the two of you. If that means kicking him out of the house and changing states, do it.
What if your abusive boyfriend also abuses your friends?
an abusive boyfriend is the worst thing that can happen to a lady. if u have an abusive boyfriend the it's best u terminate the relationship. as long as ur not married the he doesn't own u. and if u stick with him and he continues abusing ur friends then they will leave u.
Did anything happen when Michael Jackson was a kid?
His father was abusive, both mentally and psychically.
I bit my boyfriend on the back and he swung backwards and hit me. is this abusive?
I wouldn't say that was abusive because you bit him first.
If a man showed abusive signs early in the relationship but now acts mentally healthy what are the chances he is still abusive?
if he want to commit sadist acts with you such as murder, bondage, or bestiality, then he is prolly still abusive.
