How do you make your relationship more exciting?

Answer 1

Try harder.

If you focus on your partner's pleasure, then it will automatically increase your pleasure, as well.

Another Answer

The act of sex can be mechanical if you focus on "getting your rocks off". This scenario is focusing solely on you, and is usually what happens when you are not emotionally involved with your partner. While the feeling might be good, it is not as good as when you are in a longer term relationship with your partner. The longer term relationship lets you find the other person's "trigger points", letting you have a more intimate experience.

For men, making sex better involves visual stimulation. Ladies, this is why sexy lingerie is a must. Costuming is very visual, and he loves to look at you in something he considers stimulating. Simple naked works in the beginning because it is new, but a longer term relationship might need more artful visual pictures. Surprise him with lace, stockings (not panty hose) or even a wet tee shirt. This also satisfies your desire to be looked at so choose a costume with as much care as you do your outer clothing.

The classic French maid costume, thongs, garter belts and stockings, altering your physical appearance with makeup or shaving, or even removing an article of clothing can be very appealing. There is an art to "teasing", so take the time to learn what he considers sexy. It might be that he is a "breast man" or a "butt man" or a "leg man". In each case, find out what he is attracted to, then play up that part of your body. A scandalous bra, panties, or stockings can make sex more fun.

For men, your lady takes time to "warm up". While she is able to have multiple orgasms, it still takes time to get there. Be prepared to enjoy the warm up period.

You have certain triggers on your body that you know, let her in on the secret! And learn her triggers...she has them also. They can include the back, breast, buttocks, knees (back of them), or even feet. Women are more inclined to the touch process, so keep those hands manicured and use lotion. Nothing is more irritating than a hangnail on a sensitive spot. It is not manly to make her hurt in an intimate encounter.

Bathe!!! The nose is a sexual zone too, so nasty doesn't cut it. There is nothing more sensual than a mutual bathing experience. Washing each other can be very exciting without the effort of costuming. Once again, be prepared. Bath gels, shampoos, and moisturizer are important accessories to a sexy bath. Big fluffy towels and sensual rugs are wonderful accessories too...if you get that far.

Essentially, the key to better sex is to take your time. Foreplay is essential in making sex better, and the more you know your partner, the better it can be. Familiarity does not breed contempt, it breeds better sex. Knowing what your partner's triggers are will make the encounters better, last longer, and be more satisfying than the simple mechanics of the act.

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Answer 2

AnswerThrough open, honest, and direct communication on each others needs, wants, and desires.

And if that is a little intimidating, try something like www.bedroomtest.com or similar sites which help fascinate these conversations.

Try new things. Discuss with your partner what they want to try and see if you agree.

Answer 3

if your a woman, wear a new bikini/thongs/g-string inside and wear micro mini skirt with a short jacket and boots. do a pole dance/ dace in front of him and strip yourself slowly. to make it more fun for him, let him strip you. make sure you set up the candles. to make it more fun ask him to do somethin then you take your clothes of one-by-one.after your naked do a sexy dance for him. let him touch your boobs,ass or any place else if he answer a question correctly or do something nice for you.why not ask him to lie down uner a chair and you sit naked and let him touch you(make sure his head is,looking up, is facing your vagina).you can also let him sit on a chair and you sit on him facing to his face. you should also trysiting the other way and shake yourself on him. just let him touch you anywhere he wants.

you can also try the bad cop trick. be a little aggressive.

if you do not want ot do this, you can just be naked. Try todo it to him not he wants to do to you.

Answer 4

well theres alot of ways of sparking your relationship. to start with you should try and have sex fantasys that use both like. such as role plays, dress games and lots of sex games i do it alot haha and it is the best

Answer 5

A: Think about it. Marriages are very exciting when you first get to know someone because there are tons of emotions and fireworks and fuzzy feelings. The key in any marriage is to try and recreate this feeling so that you don't get bored with each other. Sometimes it can be as little a thing as going out on a "date" once a week. Sometimes it may involve separating temporarily or taking a vacation with just the two of you alone...without kids for a weekend. Sometimes it may mean picking up a Kama Sutra and trying out all of the pictures... it all depends on you and your spouses comfort level. The most important part to begin with though...is to talk with your spouse and to get ideas from THEM. Chances are that if you're feeling bored or unexcited in the relationship, then your spouse is too.

Answer 6

you can get completley naked but notnhave sex, and you can grab eachothers -parts- and just enjoy it like that. it can be very self-satisfying.