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How do you move on if your lover ended the affair and you see him every day at work and you have strong feelings for him and it hurts when you see him and should you tell him your feelings?

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2005-11-10 19:49:19
2005-11-10 19:49:19

I am sorry you are hurting so much and working with that person adds salt to the wounds. Please consider this a quick lesson in life and realize that most people that have affairs treat them as such and either have one affair and go back to their mate, or have many more affairs. When a person gives in to an affair with a married person, then that person can't expect commitment. Commitment comes with a strong relationship, engagement and marriage. If you don't try for the stars you'll end up face down in the dirt. I suggest you try to see if you can either get moved to a different department at work and if not, start looking around for another job. If you can't do this, then do the best you can, talk out your feelings with a trusted friend, BUT DON'T TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!! Go around that office with a smile on your face and your head held high even though your heart is breaking. Start getting out with friends and start dating again. Having an affair usually doesn't even come close to what love is about. Start building on your low self esteem and get back on track. People just make mistakes and whether you want to admit it or not, both of you made one. I again say "humans often want what they can't have." I will also add to that ... if we are lucky to attain it, it's usually not as glorious as what we thought it would be. Good luck Marcy

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