I am sorry you are hurting so much and working with that person adds salt to the wounds. Please consider this a quick lesson in life and realize that most people that have affairs treat them as such and either have one affair and go back to their mate, or have many more affairs. When a person gives in to an affair with a married person, then that person can't expect commitment. Commitment comes with a strong relationship, engagement and marriage. If you don't try for the stars you'll end up face down in the dirt. I suggest you try to see if you can either get moved to a different department at work and if not, start looking around for another job. If you can't do this, then do the best you can, talk out your feelings with a trusted friend, BUT DON'T TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!! Go around that office with a smile on your face and your head held high even though your heart is breaking. Start getting out with friends and start dating again. Having an affair usually doesn't even come close to what love is about. Start building on your low self esteem and get back on track. People just make mistakes and whether you want to admit it or not, both of you made one. I again say "humans often want what they can't have." I will also add to that ... if we are lucky to attain it, it's usually not as glorious as what we thought it would be. Good luck Marcy
Yes. I was with my husband for 20 years, married 13 years with 2 children - 8 and 11. I had an affair. He was also married. Very strong emotional affair, which turned to a physical affair over time. I ended up deciding to end my marriage. The affair was not the cause of the problems in my marriage, but more a result of them.
Bree hired Karl as her divorce lawyer when she was planning on divorcing Orson and they started to have feelings for each other and started an affair. The affair ended when Karl was killed when the plane crashed on Wisteria Lane in the episode 'Boom Crunch' of season 7. Bree decided to stay with Orson after he was paralysed in the same plane crash but Orson left her at the end of season 7
Affair is an affair, it doesn't matter how you see it, still an affair. If the two of you didn't talk about consequences the result will be messy. Yes it start as friendship, and friends can talk about anything, they will start comparing and sharing things. Before you know it, the two of you broke the path of friendship and become emotionally involve. Either way its all bad and people gets hurt.
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