Just exactly as they're said in the question. These are Hebrew terms, and Yiddish imports them directly, without translation.
Grammatically, You say B'nai Mitzvah just as you would Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah.
Just like you did when you asked the question: Bat Mitzvah.
Do you mean a card to a boy having a Bar Mitzvah? The general message is congratulatory, so ... Congratulations on this special occasion. or ... You've worked very hard, congratulations on this special day!
During a Bar or Bat-Mitzvah (Bar is for boys, Bat is for girls) there is a service usually with a party that same day. At the service, you pray to God and the Bar or Bat-Mitzvah person reads from the Torah or gets an Aliah. An Aliah is what you say before reading a section of the Torah. It's a symbol of going up to God. After the Bar or Bat0Mitzvah reads Torah and/or has an Alia, he/she is officially a Bar/Bat-Mitzvah. The party is usually dinner or lunch with music, games, and other party or celebration-like activities.
Note: This is an americanism that doesn't translate literally into Hebrew. You don't actually have a bat mitzvah. You become a bat mitzvah, or you have a party in honor of becoming a bat mitzvah.I hope you have a good bat mitzvah (party) =a male says:ani mekaveh sheyihyeh lach (mesibat) bat mitzvah tovah×× ×™ מקווה שיהיה לך (מסיבת) בת מצוה טובהa female says:ani mekavah sheyihyeh lach (mesibat) bat mitzvah tovah×× ×™ מקווה שיהיה לך (מסיבת) בת מצוה טובה
There are many details associated with a bar or bat mitzvah, but here are three:A bar mitzvah is a coming of age celebration, observed when a boy turns 13 (girls have a bat mitzvah at age 12 or 13).The boy is called to the Torah, either to read a portion, to say a blessings before and after a portion, or both.The bar mitzvah marks the occasion where the boy is fully responsible to fulfill all of the time-bound commandments that an adult must follow.
Happy Birthday = Yom Huledet Same'achOn the occasion of a Bar Mitzvah it is customary to bless the Bar Mitzvah boy with a hearty Mazel Tov!(Oh... and don't forget the presents...)
Typically you would wish the Bar Mitzvah boy and his family "Mazal Tov"
Wear your best, dressy clothes.
Thank you for your generous gift on the occasion of my Bar Mitvah.
Today most non-Orthodox Jews celebrate a girl's Bat Mitzvah in the same way as a boy's Bar Mitzvah. Generally Bat mitzvah's are for 12 year old girls. All Reform and Reconstructionist, and most Conservative synagogues have egalitarian participation, in which women read from the Torah and lead services. The majority of Orthodox Jews reject the idea that a woman can publicly read from the Torah or lead prayer services whenever there is a minyan (quorum of 10 males) available to do so. However, the public celebration of a girl becoming Bat Mitzvah in other ways has made strong inroads in Modern Orthodox Judaism and also in some elements of Haredi Judaism. In these congregations, women do not read from the Torah or lead prayer services, but occasionally they will lecture on a Jewish topic to mark their coming of age, learn a book of Tanakh, recite verses from the Book of Esther or the Book of Psalms, or say prayers from the siddur. In some modern Orthodox circles, bat mitzvah girls will read from the Torah and lead prayer services in a women's tefillah. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, a prominent Orthodox posek, has ruled that Bat Mitzvah celebrations are allowable and not be construed as imitating non-Jewish customs; however, they do not have the status of seudat mitzvah. Rabbi Avadia Yosef holds that it is a seudat mitzvah.
The blessings that are said are "May you live to see your world fulfilled, May you be our link to future worlds, and may your hope encompass all the generations to be. May your heart conceive with understanding, may your mouth speak wisdom and your tongue be stirred with sounds of joy. May your gaze be straight and sure, your eyes be lit with Torah's lamp, your face aglow with heaven's radiance, your lips expressing words of knowledge, and your inner self alive with righteousness. And may you always rush in eagerness to hear the words of One more ancient than all time." I finally found what the blessings were myself. Thanks anyway.