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How do you tell a girl you want to kiss her?


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October 31, 2009 3:49PM


You really shouldn't tell the girl you want to kiss her because that may ruin the mood. Usually girls like it when the guy just kisses her at the right time, and at the right place. you may bring it up suddley such as saying do you like things out of the ordinary and if she says yes she wants you to kiss her randomly such as right then. But, if she says no she wants it at the perfect time and place.

I am a girl and personally i would much rather just have the guy kiss me, it makes it really nice and spontaneous, if your worried about her not wanting to kiss you then make sure she knows before hand that you are planning to kiss by renting a movie and putting your arm around her .also if she wants to kiss you back she might have her head tilted up towards you the whole time so you have an easyy entry


How about holding her and kissing her on the cheek and then perhaps on the neck? Telling her first that you want to kiss her is likely to make things unnecessarily complicated. She probably knows already that you want to kiss her. :)

Another answer:

Some girls prefer guys to ask first, some don't, you'll have to works that one out.

"Would it be alright if I kissed you now or would that be viewed as assault?"

Good luck :)

personally i think that the best way to get a girl to kiss you is to get her on her own, make sure you have already had mature contact (clothed touching) then complement her lean forwards half way and if she makes no attempt to stop you kissing her then do it.