How do you tell a guy who you're only friends with at the time that you want to take things to the next level?

Answer 1

The key to this whole thing is to ask in a sneaky way so you don't risk losing a good friendship or your dignity. Try saying, "You know, we've really enjoyed each other. Just for the heck of it why don't we go out on a real date?" If the person asks what you mean just say, "Just like any other couple." This way it gives your friend the chance to say something like "I don't think it's a good idea because it could ruin a good friendship" or, "Sounds like a fun idea to me." Either way you come out with your dignity and retain your friendship. Sometimes the most successful romances have come to be because the couple were good friends. In great relationships usually it's friendship with some attractiveness towards each other, but suddenly one or both realize it has gone to another level. Good luck Marcy