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2007-04-23 03:38:02
2007-04-23 03:38:02

Are you guys good friends already, or did you just start getting to know him? All I can tell you is what I've caught myself doing lately; I think I'm falling for one of my best friends. She's literally always on my mind, from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep, and I notice that I start staring at her without realizing it. We're in a bunch of the same classes and activities, and I study with her even if I don't need it or volunteer to help out with band stuff (she's a drum major). So, do you catch him looking at you often? Is he offering to spend time with you? Think of what he does; will he go out of his way to help you with something or just to talk to you? Again, these things are just what I catch myself doing, and might not be a conclusive answer, but it's a start. By the way, (I assume you are interested in being with this guy), could you help me back with how you think girls show signs of interest? Thanks... I'm not the one who originally asked the question but I wanted the answer. One way you can tell a girl is interested (I'm a girl) is if you ask her a personal question that can go either way: yes or no/or an answer that requires an explanation. Example: Did you see that new movie we were talking about? Now if she doesn't like you in "that way" she might say "Yeaaaaah." She might add someting else but nothing personal except, "It was nice!" But if she likes you, and she does say something like, "Yeaaaaah." She'll add something else just to keep talking to you. Also if you notice how she looks at you when your talking to her. Her hands are either to her side or making gestures as her eyes NEVER leave yours. Women like to admire so unlike men, we can stare at the guy we're interested in for periods of time b/c we enjoy that. Like men, she'll remember things from before JUST to have a conversation/to show she remembers. Try this: talk to a female friend/co-worker/classmate and if you notice that she looks alittle mad, or she's acting a little colder than she was before, then yeah, she likes you alright. We females are HIGHLY jealous creatures!!! Hope that helped! Hi, I'm a guy, and yeah, I like a girl. First thing you should know is this - just because a guy likes another girl doesn't mean he does not also like you. It isn't unusual for a guy to like more than one girl before they start dating. Of course, this doesn't mean he'll cheat on you or anything, it's just a biological survival of the species thing (think about it and you'll get why). If a guy is interested in you, he'll just be happier around you. He may flirt with you, or he may not. He will probably show up around you when you're in a library, a class, etc. He may try to give you gifts (and if you like him, accept them and don't give them back - giving them back is like saying, "Jerk, no way I would like you!!!", unless they're really big. Like, accept candy and stuff). Basically, he'll change around you (positively). He'll pay attention to what you say, even if it's really, really boring. He'll laugh at your jokes, and probably tell you things that would likely make himself uncomfortable (like, give you advice, etc.). He'll also probably try to physically touch you in some way. Doing this to him is a strong turn - on (patting on back, etc.). Just watch to see if he's trying to be a good friend. If you think he likes you, ask him out. No, you won't look desperate; actually, the guy will probably be impressed at your confidence. Trust me, it's no easier for girls than it is for guys. Also note, guys have a hard time of understanding when girls like them - we have poorer social sense and social skills, and, although it is a stereotype, we see the world in much more sexual means than girls. So, don't be offended if we had no clue that we liked you. One final word of advice - don't play hard to get until after a few dates or so - we just think you're avoiding us, and will then ignore you. If a woman likes you she will look into your eyes while you are talking. Sometimes she will shy away from you because your signals don't initiate interest. To reassure her look into her eyes and ask her plenty of questions, nice ones that show you really want to know who she is sincerely. Sometimes a compliment helps, because women love that. If you are friends with her take your time before asking her out, make sure she is what you really want. You don't want to lose your friendship with her if it doesn't work out so it is important she knows you are taking her seriously. Good relationships take time, but they are lasting ones. It is always good to know what her dreams are and how you fit into them. When making a decision in a realtionship, you have to think of her as well and count her in. Don't rush this beautiful freindship because it sounds like it can be stronger than you ever thought. Women, at least speaking for myself like a man who is comfortable with sharing intimate thoughts about his feelings. This is definitely a turn on if she likes you, because she will see you as different and that means you are a keeper. Small gestures are very important for a woman: Hold the door for her, Send her an email to say hi, call her, text message, but don't be extreme. If you are she will think you as desparate, however if this person really knows you she will not judge you. Make her laugh, women love humor...but do it in a genuine fashion. No jokes of the day. Talk about books you read, has she read them, what does she like to read, ask questions, once again. Oh, the most important thing to remember is to go with your gut and really listen to your inner voice. If you feel confident that she likes you at a certain point do not hesitat to ask her out. A perfect date is a party...you can talk, there are people around you and one thing will lead to the next...in a nice way. I would not pick a movie, not good for conversation. Taking her out to a restaurant, a decent one.. pick one that she likes or will like the food. Women love attention to detail. They feel loved and taken care of. Whatever you do try to avoid jealousy, it can be hard when you really like a person, but it can destroy the beginning of something great. Manners are super important, so pull out the chair when she sits down, always wait until both your dinners arrive before eating and let her know whe looks beautiful. Behaviour is the key to success in relationships and business and so on. It will get you far. Also, if you really want something close your eyes and focus on it, draw it and say it, not once but a number of times. Energy is everything. You will get what you want if you know the law of attraction. You can google "Law of Attraction" online. Envision yourself with whom you want to be with. I wish you the best of luck. Sounds like you are on your way to true happiness. Best to you.

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