How do you know when your wife doesn't want you anymore?

Answer 1

AnswerThis is a very hard question to answer. It depends also on how old you both are as marriage problems go in phases. So, I'll break it down for you:

If you are fairly young and married, then the magic can go out of a marriage and it takes a lot of hard work to have a good balancing act in a successful marriage. There will be some bumpy roads to go through such as possibly cheating (one partner or both) or just boredom where one or the other stays out after work and doesn't take the time with their partner. Missing important dates, getting odd phone calls at different times of the evening; secrecy, not talking, drop in sexual relations.

In the 40s+ both men and women can go through menopause. Men's used to be called "midlife crisis," but it is proven it's just plain old menopause, and although they don't go through near the hormonal changes women do, they can get moody, lethargic, feel they need to recapture youth (may have an affair because of it) and are angry in general and depressed. Women can certainly get cranky, moody, burst into tears or burst into rages without the slightest hint to the guy, depressed (often confused with bi-polar) and often will ask if she's still pretty, fat, or does he find her attractive. Both partners can feel like they are missing something in life and have huge urges to leave the marriage in hopes of something better.

It's really time to just sit down with her and tell her how you feel and certainly ask how she feels. If your sex life isn't great, then don't fret, because any age can suffer from this depending how hard either partner works, shift-work, long hours, or, even medications can cause low libido. Perhaps both of you simply need a vacation. If you can't afford much go on a mini vacation. If you have kids get family or a good friend to look after them for a long weekend and go some place together.

Communication is the best solution to any problem in a marriage. Without it, we only can second-guess what the other person is thinking and that can cause a lot of trouble. We live in a very stressful and fast-paced world and sometimes a person is just plain dog tired.

Answer 2

If your wife doesn't love she wouldn't talk to you like she use to. She wouldn't tell you how her day was. She wouldn't tell you I love you.She would dress more elegant than usual to impress other men. Or maybe shes just having a bad day. Oh and she wouldn't want to sleep with you. == No one is totally always able to act lovingly. Life happens. However, if your wife is still with you and you are sharing a life, she loves you. If you notice some of the great things you used to do have gone by the wayside, then make some changes. If you have young children, provide respite by letting her sleep in a morning a week, help clean house, play with the kids--and most importantly, keep up a date night and occasional weekend with just the two of you. Don't forget to tell her that you love her. Sometimes it is not just all about you and you have to make the effort.

Answer 3

That's a hard one my friend ! - I suppose you have to first try and understand the meaning of the word LOVE.

As the dynamics of a relationship changes, the little things that you and your wife perhaps did in the early days, maybe has changed over the months or years.

Have you taken her for granted ? - Have you asked her if she still loves you ?

Just because somebody doesen't say "I love you", or give you little gifts it does not mean that they don't love you anymore.

Cast your mind back to the last time you told your wife you loved her.

Answer 4

She will try and avoid you at any cost, go out a lot or try to occupy any of her time that does not include you, work more, try and argue often as to leave or not talk with you, doesn't show you any type of feelings that are good so to speak, possibly hiding things from you - you will definitely know by how she treats you and her general behaviour.

Answer 5

She'll cheat or divorce you.

Answer 6

she dosnt put out anymore