How do you tell someone you do not love them?

Say "I don't love you." There is no nice way of saying this to someone and no matter how nice you say it that person's heart will be crushed, but the thing to remember is, you vowed to be honest with each other. If you stay and don't love this person how do you think they'll feel when they find out? You have not only wasted your life, but theirs. Sometimes when people fall in love they think it's the love of a lifetime, but for some, they can fall out of love. Honesty is the best policy. Pick a quiet time away from family and friends (kids if you have any) and tell them. Yes, they will be hurt, but you MUST be honest. I would like to suggest that you take a vacation alone (at least a mini one) and make some excuse as to needing "head space." This time should be used for really thinking about this situation and why you feel you don't love this person anymore. Sometimes we are so tensed up with every day stresses we feel we can't cope or we are simply going to explode. Some of us even feel like we want to change our names, run away to another town and leave no forwarding address. It can happen to anyone of us. Be sure you are really not in love with this person, and by the way, try to figure out what you think true love is. Marcy Good luck Marcy