Medusa isn't real But i think that she only turns men into stone not woman because she is a woman and she doesn't want to hurt the woman Also, her blood is deadly. In the original, it was her blood that would turn into scorpions.
It depends on the type of guy that you are with. As a man I find it a turn on when a woman gets wet rather easily. As for the second part of your question you would have to ask another woman because I do not know