How long am i supposed to wait for my husband to return home when he abandoned me and my two boys because all he cares about is his money he didn't like it when i say that money belongs to both of us?

Answer Depends on how long he's been gone. Depends on whether you know where he is and do the two of you really need the money and if so, why can't you work so he doesn't have to work so many hours so far from home?