How long does it take an ex-boyfriend to get back together with you when you have been best friends since grade school?
You are getting things confused. You were friends first then it
turned into love and you became a couple. Although friendship and
love are very closely connected things do change when the
relationship turns serious. There is more stress on the
relationship when going together. Some people decide to keep things
the way they are and remain friends because they fear if they
should become a steady couple it will change all the fun and
relaxing good times they have together as friends. Ex means just
that. They are no longer connected to you or you to them. You
opened a door from just friendship into a romantic relationship and
for whatever reason you have split-up. It too difficult for a
couple who were friends once, then lovers to go back to being
friends. I am sorry to say, but it's time you either moved on or
contacted you ex to see if you can repair your relationship.