How long should you wait for someone to ask you to get married?

Answer 1

After i and my lover spent about 6 years together, my boyfriend told me that we can not be together. and already We were making ready ourselves to get married this year and I was very happy and absolutely ready to marry him. this breakup started when he went a little far from the city where I live, a year before. He found a good job out there. And he promised me to come back in one or two years. In the mean time, I found a job around his place (we take it as a good opportunity for us to start living together) but the company I worked for resist to leave me since i am a responsible person in the company. They offered me a very nice salary increment with huge responsibility of work. Then I told to my boyfriend I preferred to stay where I live and work, since, he has not a plan to live there forever. He was very upset at the moment and ignored me totally. I tried to contact him but I can't. Following so much effort he sends me a message saying "our relationship is over". I never expected such a thing to happen, so I got sick. Even after so much begging he allow me to see him, but told me the same thing that it is over. I asked him the real reason. He said, you never listened to me, you never gave me credit, and you disrespected me…..and so on. I never noticed such a thing in our relationship before, so I got shocked and couldn't say a word in front of him. For me our relationship was perfect. And I really love him. I want to be with him. I send so many letters saying I'm sorry, I tried to contact him but there is no reply. i did everything to attract him and live with him forever but nothing was going through. so I needed a help on how to get my lover back. I had the feeling that he still loves me, though he did not say a word. I needed help seriously. i thought it will never possible to get him back and be the happy couple again? so when i read testimonies about dr.marnish@ymail. com i contacted him and he told me that my case is a simple one to solve, so after his consultation and casting of his spell my boyfriend emailed me telling me he was sorry for all that he did to me, that he is ready to marry me now, i was shocked, i never believed that dr.marnish could make such thing to happen with his spell, today i am getting married to my boyfriend, and i will never forget this spell caster i will always talk about him anywhere i go

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Answer 2

It wouldn't hurt to mention a) how old you are and b) how long you have been with this man. My personal opinion--don't get married until you are at least in your mid to late twenties or older and you have been in a fully monagamous, non abusive relationship for at least 2-3 years. Other people may disagree, but that's my perspective. For the rest:

Instead of waiting for a proposal, there are many things you should be discussing with a long term partner. Do you both agree on the idea of marriage, how many children you would like to have, finances, where you will live? Have you asked him what he thinks he needs in order to be married? When he talks about marriage and children, does he get specific? Does he talks about what kind of lifestyle he wants to have, where he wants to live, how you would handle finances together? Or is it just vague references to 'someday'?

If you've been with him over 3-4 years and he is still unwilling to discuss marriage other than vague 'not ready for it' replies, you need to figure out how much time and effort you want to give to this. You can stay in the relationship, if you can accept and be content to just be with him knowing that there may never be a marriage. If having a relationship that leads to marriage means more to you than a nonmarital relationship with him, you've come to the crossroads with him, and it's probably time to break away.

Answer 3

Depends on how much you love each other. It could be a year or 2 years or several months. but be sure to ask the father first

Answer

When you know in your heart and soul that you truly love her and no one can replace her.

Answer 4

This is the 21st Century, you are allowed to ask HIM if you'd like. If you are old-fashioned, maybe drop a few hints his way. If marriage has even occurred to him, he'll pick up on it.

Answer 5

you should know the person first so i say at lest 5 to 6 months

Answer 6

6mouths to a year ]'