Connecticut does not have a set age limit as to when a child can pick a parent to live with. A judge will listen to their preference but it ultimately is up to the judge to decide.
age 18 see links below
"Washington How old do you have to be to decide which parent you want to live when the child is 13?
the legal age a child has to be to decide what parent they would choose to live with is 13
What age can a child decide were he or she want to leave
In West Virginia, a child can decide which parent they want to live with when they are 18.
No, a child can not decide this until they are 18.
In Wyoming, a child of 14 years of age or older can decide which parent to live with. After the age of 11, a judge can choose the child's desire.
what is the legal age for a child in the state of Texas decide which parent they want to live with
15. The child has to be 15
They have to be 18.