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How to tell if your husband doesn't love you?

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Answered 2007-07-01 04:09:44

The best way to tell if your husband loves you is if he shows you respect. He and you are allowed to get angry every once in awhile, but if it happens all the time, it's time to take stock of your situation and make a plan to address it. All marraiges go through ups and downs, but if there are patterns of behavior that have changed dramatically, you need to discuss them with him and come to some agreements, maybe even some compromise. It is also important to consider if you love him and if your behavior has changed or if there has been some trigger event to ignite these feelings for you. A loving relationship is hard work and while it is easy to judge or question another person's love for you, it is equally important that you feel you are worth being loved. If there is something he has said or done that leads you to believe he doesn't love you, stop and think about how this fits into his behavior overall. If there is something blatant or serious that has happened, you are the best judge. Listen to your gut and if it still bothers you tomorrow, prepare your thoughts and talk with him about it. If you aren't ready to discuss this with him, write down your thoughts so you can prepare to discuss your relationship in a mature way. Make sure he is well rested and approach him lovingly, not with blame or neediness. Last and most importantly, take a look at your self-esteem and find ways to bolster it so that you aren't seeking rejection or relying on your total happiness through his love for you. Know that we have all been there at one time or another in our lives and that by reaching out, even through an online service, you are taking mature responsibility for your feelings. That is a person worth being loved. Good luck.

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