It depends on the man, but if we're talking about the classic married man stereotype, he would feel guilt (or proud or even not-caring, depends on the man).
The wife would feel a lot of guilt and anger.
The man would feel guilt not because of his mistress but because he got caught.
The wife would feel guilt because she would get the idea that she couldn't satisfy her husband sexually; she would feel anger because of the obvious fact that the man she was married to was penetrating another woman.
Very badly hurt! Betrayed.
depends on the man too. Some people could go overboard and do something they will regret or something that is irreversible.
or you can find a guy who cares less
Most women would question the motives of the caller and then confront their husband. Some women, however, would track down the caller and try to do harm to them.
Bad.
they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.
Go up to them and tell them how you feel and what you saw and heard.
Girlfriends come in different shapes and sizes as you know and they also have very different personalities so it is difficult to say how your girlfriend would react if you caught her cheating. One thing for sure is she would be in for the shock of her life at being caught. The question is ... would she be remorseful for hurting you; doesn't care; has cheated before or she may feel ashamed and never cheat again.
Each case is inndividual, you can't generalise.
ANSWER:Because they didn't expect to get caught. The excitement of hiding and lying are what makes them feel alive. But because they got caught, the truth will come out and this is when they will start blaming their wife. Married man who commit infidelity with or without reason will always blame the wife. My point of view gentlemen.
* As to how sorry the cheating spouse is depends on the individual who cheated. Some men make a mistake once and feel guilty and heartbroken when they realize how they have hurt their spouse or children; other men feel no remorse for cheating and are just sorry they got caught.
most probably to make her feel special since he had to go back to his wife
I would feel very sad. I would also feel very angry at him because I would have trusted him a lot.
because the man does not want to feel ashamed for his self because he is just a self fish person he should feel ashamed...
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!
I think he wants to feel that he had both of you. Never assume a man or woman will leave their mate for you. Most of the time even if he does leave her for you it don't last. The fun times with no real attachments are over.