I am 13 and i know the age to choose the parent you want is 12 but is it all up to you or can the court put you with the money maker of the house by Ashley harris ms age 13?

Although some states allow the Court to consider an "election" by a child of a certain age (usually beginning at 12-14) regarding which parent he/she prefers to live with, the Court ultimately decides what is in the best interests of the child by considering a variety of factors.